Quote:The minute she said no to him when he asked her to marry him, no matter what the reason was, should have been a red flag for him about their relationship. How can you stay living with someone who after over 3 years of living together says no to your proposal. If it were me I would have probably left soon after that. These are not two high school or even college students, even though at times it was hard to tell that, they were 2 mature adults in a relationship that was turning into Roommate status.
Your reactionary outlook is exactly the way many people react. But the way the show Juliette handling the situation was very mature. She realized their was something changed but did not know what. In good faith she did not want to give an answer that she might regret. Many people in those kind of situation either over look these things or are in denial about these things. What comes to mind is someone that developed a drinking problem. How many mates know there is something wrong but overlook the other partners problems. I would be different if Juliette had said no or not given a reason for why she wanted to wait. Plus Nick knew he was withholding a very important pieces of information about himself.
It is questionable why he ask at that time. People have been known to propose to save a relationship when the have done something wrong. Nick may have felt if Juliette knew the truth about him she would leave. Being married she would not be as quick to leave. The other position is he may have felt his being secretive Juliette may have thought there was another women. His proposal was his way of proving there was not and he still loved her.
Quote:get NEWLY involved with someone when they already knew what a p.o.s human being that person was.Do you know how many marriage proposals Ted Bundy gets. There are a lot that like the bad boy image. or like the excitement of danger in their lives. There is nothing unrealistic about Nick and
Adalind. We are always hearing about convicted criminals both men and women that have huge list of followers.
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