04-29-2016, 05:02 AM
(04-28-2016, 02:16 PM)syscrash Wrote: What ever the act, neither party sees themselves as a victim. For the posters to say, that is just their being in denial makes no sense.Hello Syscrash,
I think the bigger problem with these posters is their narrow view of sex. The same narrow view that finds Juliette sleeping with Sean and then Kenneth a reflection on her character. News flash people There are those of us who do not have sexual hangups. Sex is an enjoyable past time enjoyed by one or more individuals. The first thing the shippers say is. Nick and Adalind sleep together so they must love each other. As if one has anything to do with the other.
The bottom line is two people had sex together. They do not see them selves as victims. Isn't a little arrogant to tell them how they should feel. There are many guys no mater how it happened, to sleep with someone that looks like claire coffee. they would consider it as winning the lottery.
Here is what Google has to say about human sexuality:
Quote:Human sexuality is the expression of sexual sensation and related intimacy between human beings. Psychologically, sexuality is the means to express the fullness of love between a man and a woman. Biologically, it is the means through which a child is conceived and the lineage is passed on to the next generation.Wikipedia has an article about Sexual Ethics (also called Sexual Morality):
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_ethics
The introduction reads:
Quote:Sexual ethics or sex ethics (also called sexual morality) are ethics that concern issues from all aspects of human sexuality, including human sexual behavior. Broadly speaking, sexual ethics relate to community and personal standards regarding the conduct of interpersonal relationships. This includes issues of consent, sexual relations before marriage or while married (such as marital fidelity, premarital sex and non-marital sex), questions about how gender and power are expressed through sexual behavior, how individuals relate to society, and how individual behavior impacts public health concerns.If you click the link Religion and sexuality you will read:
There is a number of facts situations where sexual behavior that is not illegal, or is impossible to prosecute, may be unethical.[1] Ethical dilemmas which involve sex can often appear in situations where there is a significant power difference or where there is a pre-existing professional relationship between the participants, when there is an age difference, or where consent is partial or uncertain. Sexual ethics can also include the ethics of procreation.
Quote:The views of religions and religious believers range widely, from giving sex and sexuality a rather negative connotation, to the belief that sex is the highest expression of the divine. Views on sexuality may not even be shared among adherents of a particular sector. Some religions distinguish between sexual activities that are practiced for biological reproduction (sometimes allowed only when in formal marital status and at a certain age), and other activities practiced for sexual pleasure, as immoral.You seem to have a problem with those who do not agree with you. The Grimm show participates in Hollywood ethics and morality. Adalind for example has multiple sex partners and two children born out of wedlock. Morality matters. The statistical evidence is quite convincing:
http://www.slate.com/articles/business/m..._what.html
By the way, I do not agree with the Deuteronomic code "A woman accused of (and shown) not being a virgin at the time of marriage is to be stoned to death; however, if the accusation is false, the man who brings the accusation is to be punished with a fine."
New Guy