(04-29-2016, 03:10 PM)izzy Wrote: Maybe, here is another thought. Fatherhood effects some guys strongly and they discover feelings they never knew they had and react is unexpected ways, sometimes explosively so.
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I know when my bitch told me she was carrying my seed I was the most overprotective, cantankerous a-hole you could imagine. And now 20 some years later I still am. She bore my child, you get near her and I'll rip your head off, and look at my offspring sideways and you will not like the result.
It does indeed, izzy. My husband is the kindest, gentlest man I have ever met. Yet he has a side to him that few people know about. When it comes out, people instinctively know they're in grave danger.
We have some neighbors who delighted in giving their sons' and their sons' friends alcohol. They also loved inviting some unsavory characters into the neighborhood. One of these characters got a hold of my daughter, without out knowledge. She was barely 13 at the time. This character was underage so accusations of statutory rape were out of the question. Now, the neighbors knew about it, and continue to let this juvenile ass associate with their kids in full view.
This rankled my husband to the tenth degree of hell and we got in the car to go somewhere one day. They were all out in their front yard, like vultures, including this kid. My husband backed the car out of the driveway, stopped it right in the street, pointed a finger at this kid and said "I'm going to get you".
Needless to say the kid disappeared forthwith and never returned again. Our neighbors had the nerve to looked shocked but immediately packed it up and no more drinking parties for minors occurred at their house. They knew better than to mess with my husband after that.
A father's love for his child is limitless and I know firsthand, you don't mess with that love.
Regarding Nick, I understand him protecting the unborn baby. I have no issues with that. But immediately believing Adalind when she says it's his kid? If I were him, I'd be demanding a paternity test before trusting anything she says.
The best way to frustrate a cyberbully is to ignore him.