12-17-2016, 10:41 PM
Quote:syscrash Wrote:What about these statements show debauchery and hedonism. They are all pointing out the narrow thinking that was prevalent in the past but enlighten thinking views are starting to change. I only advocate that belief without fact is illogical. What proof is there that a persons sexual habits dictates the type of person someone is. That kind of judgement is based on a belief not supported by fact. people can have many beliefs. Beliefs can contradict each other. there can only be one fact. facts can never contradict. Think of it this way. Wars are fought over a difference of beliefs. One persons terrorist is the other person freedom fighter. If people learned to live and let live. To not feel they need to make others live as they think they should. There would never be disagreements. Conflict only exist because of trying to enforce a belief. Take this conversation you constantly see it as you are supporting your belief. I see it as your belief does not exist because there are no facts to make it true. lets take the example of murder. You believe it is bad. But there are no facts to support that. What the facts support is murder causes pain in those that care about the person killed. The fact is most people do not want to feel pain. Human nature causes people to alleviate pain. That can leads to retribution. That is why human nature adheres to eye for an eye, even if some don't act on it. The point you murder someone I care about I don't see the killer as bad. I see them as creating a need for retribution. Do I act on it. I consider retribution is a never ending cycle. retribution begets retribution. My actions are based on the pain I am trying to alleviate. Not on what I feel is right or wrong.
OK then ask your religious. Friends how many of the females feel comfortable enough to see a hot guy, walk up and tell them they want to have sex. How many feel, people will feel less of them if they have sex on the first date. How many of the guys can admit another guy looks hot. How many of the guys would not have a problem if some catches them masturbating. All of these examples have one thing in common. Their comfortableness exist only in the guilt associated with them. The good girls do not do that syndrome.
If your Mormon and Amish friends are so progressive whip out a multi speed vibrator and ask have you ever tried one of these, sure hits the spot. Take a vote how many of your religious friends think people working in the adult entertainment industry are abused misguided, morally corrupt individuals. How many of them would have trouble understanding adult actors are not forced, they enjoy what they do. How many would have trouble believing people in the industry have happy relationships, or marriages.
Of all the things I state her there is not one logical reason any should be objectionable other then repressive rules and ideas most initiated by the church. The biggest hypocrisy their is in society is. I spend $100 dollars on wine and dinner and sleep with you I am a gentleman. But if I hand you the $100 dollars so you can buy you own wine and dinner, you are now a prostitute and I am breaking the law. Here is another. I pay you to do a sex scene in a movie it is art. Take away the camera it is now prostitution. or here is one I pay for your apartment and expenses. I say your are my girlfriend everything is find. I don;t say that you are in handcuffs as a call girl. IN fact how is the so called " call girl " and different then the gold digger and the keep mistress.
It is all based on religious repressive attitude toward sex
and then there is this one (note I truncated the post, as the rest did not seem relevant to the illustration)
syscrash Wrote:
New Guy you live in a time gone past. Having sex with someone is no different then shaking their hand. You may see a difference because of some moral belief. Not everyone only views sex as a romantic act. For some it is a source of entertainment. As a fact sleeping with a hot blond that catches your eye is not a bad thing. It does not make you any less of a person. It actual shows you are not comfortable to your self.
Embrace your inner Biest..... We all have one