03-31-2019, 02:04 PM
(03-31-2019, 04:48 AM)syscrash Wrote: Yes people talk about sex just like they talk about any other activity. Not everyone sees sex as having some kind of meaning. I will ask here like I ask everyone. why is sex any different then any other activity? It is puritanical thinking that causes stress and misunderstanding when it comes to sex. Why not just have an open conversation about what you like and don't like. Why do people feel they have to trick someone into having sex.
It's this whole idea that someone is a player, or a tease, or someone is easy, or fidget, that is a sign of a pathology. These attitudes toward sex made sense back when we knew noting about reproduction, how to protect from pregnancy and disease. Give me one logical reason to not have sex when you want and with whom you won't as long as there is a clear understanding. That is the point because some feel they can't talk about sex, you get situations of I thought they meant one things when that actually meant something else. Answer this what does sex have to do with character?
It is puritanical thinking that is driving this argument about who can use what bathroom. They come up with all these illogical reasons what sharing bathrooms is wrong. Yet lots of people live in communal living situations and experience none of the problem some insist would happen. It is this same thinking that people use to past judgement on people who work in the adult industry. The funny thing is if it was not for this type of thinking there would be no adult industry. Lets take Grimm. Every act of sex was preceded by the characters having a discussion to see if all involved where on the same page. Every time both Adalind and Juliette made it clear they where having sex for the pleasure of having sex. Not once did any of them make it seem like a big deal. So tell me how was each of those time any different then if they had said lets get a beer instead of lets have sex.
What does any of this have to do with Adalind?
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