(12-27-2016, 05:52 AM)irukandji Wrote:(12-26-2016, 08:12 PM)Purity Wrote: When Adalind had sex with Nick as Juliette, there was very little talk between them both for even Nick to notice. The thing she started and ended with was seduction, and seduction can come in many styles, so to say Nick had to know the difference between both women was zero %. There was no evidence of memories because they hardly spoke, they jumped straight into bed. Now maybe the sex was different, but that can be even possible to happen to any couple, it depends on the atmosphere, maybe learning something new...etc, Nick could think of so many reasons for that and the show was not going to go that far reasoning.
When you're living together for 7 years, it becomes a routine thing. Getting ready for a wedding isn't the time to all of a sudden try something new that might take longer than normal. As Juliette, Adalind's hexenbiest had access to Juliette's memories. She had to. She can't be too different from Juliette, or Nick would be suspicious.
I can't see Nick being blamed in this situation for not knowing it was Juliette. They didn't talk much and he thought his girlfriend was trying something new. Nick didn't spend a week with her to get a clue. It was straight to sex.
I don't think Adalind had access to Juliette's memories any more than Juliette had access to Adalind's memories. The only thing Adalind could do similar to Juliette was emulate her voice. She wouldn't have said she hated bacon if she had her memories.
The show tried to justify Nick being duped. During the scene where Elizabeth transformed info Adalind, Monroe said it was no wonder Nick fell for it. Or this could just be a male problem. Trubel and Rosalee instantly picked up on something being wrong while Nick and Monroe were completely fooled.
(12-27-2016, 09:47 AM)izzy Wrote:(12-27-2016, 02:33 AM)MarylikesGrimm Wrote: Yes, it would be very hard to find better parents. Both Nick and Adalind want to be better parents they only need to be open to get help. What you are suggesting would results in years of fighting over the child and putting the child last. You cannot marry a responsible person if you are so clearly not by taking part in a self-centered custody war over your child. The type of ad you are suggesting would give the excuse of not trying to be good parents when nothing came of it. Both of them need to step up to the plate to be better parents and there is no short cut. One parent cannot simply just get rid of the other parent when they are equal and the fighting at best the result would be both losing their rights.
I think you missed the part I was making about them amicably deciding one of them should bow out for the sake of the child, ergo there would be no fighting. That is what actual adults do, they lookout for the best interest of their children. If it were not for the possibility of a Grimm or Hexenbrat emerging, the best of course of action would be to put the child up for adoption. But that is not logical since the child could be special in the wesen or grimm sense of the word. Neither of them are fit to be parents. In the best interest of the child one of them should step out so the other has a chance at finding someone who isn't dysfunctional. Think of it this way, both parents think it is a fairly normative and appropriate response to murder someone.
Think about this from Nick's POV. He has admitted to Monroe that Adalind has made for a wonderful mother. Why would Nick try to separate his son from someone he considers to be a wonderful mother? That would be rather cruel on his part.