(11-11-2015, 02:56 PM)irukandji Wrote:For many, not all, when you are in love you want to spend a lot of time together. The costs(rent, cleaning, stocking two fridges, etc) of keeping two domiciles when you can only use one at a time can become an unnecessary stress. Eventually you spend more time at one, and the other less and less, but the rent and utility bills continue forever. You may think you know a person when you are dating, but listening to them snore night after night after night can be a real eye opener(literally). When dating, we all put on a mask that is a little bit of a lie. When you are with someone on a more constant basis you get a truer picture of that person. Living together before marriage can let you know what and who you will be with for a long time(hopefully). Says the man who lived together with a woman and her three kids before a 36 year marriage(still a work in progress ).(11-11-2015, 02:35 PM)HellaShelle Wrote: My lack of understanding could just be bad memory. I'll try to rematch the episodes to understand where you're coming from, but I'm genuinely curious: what was the impression you got about it?
I didn't see the point for the two of them to live together before they married.