10-11-2017, 05:28 AM
(10-10-2017, 03:00 PM)eric Wrote: If you(with a big time peanut allergy) met a great looking girl in a bar(she's been eating peanuts), you kiss her, you have an allergic reaction and die, is she guilty of murder? I don't know about any of you, but I never discussed any of my health issues with a girl I just met. For sure I would never ask a girl that looked like that if she had been been eating peanuts. I'd have different priorities just then. If some girl told me to not touch her and leave her alone, I've heard "NO" from enough girls to know to just move on.
Eric, the analogy here is not the same. Most people I know with a peanut allergy do not frequent bars where peanuts are present, especially if peanuts can kill them. I know this for a fact, I work with a person who's allergy to peanuts. She is in her own office and peanuts are not allowed in it.
But even at that, people know peanuts are present and they know they are allergic. The man did not know the girl was poisonous. Now had she been up front with him and told him so, no matter how preposterous it might sound to him, it would be a different story.
Bella never said a word even though she knew what contact could to to another. That makes her neither innocent nor a victim.
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