06-11-2017, 12:29 PM
(06-11-2017, 12:07 PM)dicappatore Wrote: You two, irukandij and Tara have an upside-down interpretation of cheating. Fist, crossing the line with a kiss is lot less than having all out intercourse. If you two think it’s the same, Well? OK let say it is in whatever world you live in, whether be a man or a woman..
No, I never said it was cheating. I was using your definition of cheating. In my world, unless people are married, I don't consider it cheating. Your own example is a great one. If a woman sees her boyfriend kissing another woman, she might look at their love as a binding thing. Since he broke the bond, fine, she's breaking it off with him. The man, on the other hand, might look at it just the way you are. He's kissing a woman, but he ain't boinking her so it isn't infringing on their love at all.
Your outlook on this is that you're trying to make love so important that you view it as a tight bond, like marriage. It's not. Everyone looks at love differently.
I don't see it as cheating because there's no bond set between the two people other than the emotional one you're so keen on focusing on. Because that's different between two people, I don't know how one could hold the other to such fluff.
Granted, I think people should be honest with one another and break it off cleanly, but so what if they don't?
(06-11-2017, 12:07 PM)dicappatore Wrote: Second, all the cheating you mention Nick was involved in was done by spell and control of the other partner, Muse, Ariel or Adalind looking like Juliette not of his own free will.
There's that free get out of jail card popping up again.
But I was using your definition. But here's something you hadn't considered. Juliette was not with Nick when she slept with Renard or with Kenneth. She told Sean she was sleeping in her car. Now unless I'm mistaken here, that clearly indicates to me she wants nothing more to do with Nick. As she slept with Kenneth after that, how then could either of these trysts be called cheating on Nick? Again, using your definition?
(06-11-2017, 12:07 PM)dicappatore Wrote: As for Juliette, her transgressions were all done by herself including as a Hexenbiest since she was one of the same and still had free will.
Then Adalind's a liar.
(06-11-2017, 12:07 PM)dicappatore Wrote: Like all the other Wesen, being one is a part of yourself not a possession of your body and mind. Again, my conclusions were that the Hexenbiest brought out her real persona and she enjoyed it. As for nick, he only bedded Adalind of free will is after his relation with Juliette/Eve/Hexenbiest was over with. To claim that this is a double standard is absurd.
Well, as I said above, Adalind's a liar.
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