(11-19-2016, 01:42 PM)degrimm Wrote: It's like u just wasted 1-2 mins of my time up there in what u wrote telling me nothing but only ur personal life-Sorry, not trying to sound insensitive.
1. Ur first story-the personal one- i can only assume u had a kind of connection for u to sleep with her at first. She maybe connected with u like no other woman(foundation of bond) and she gave birth to ur child and that bond is there already and it becomes stronger as she takes care of ur child with her warm touch and her............(it didn't start when she was taking care of ur baby butbwhen u met her, had the connection from ur outings and slept with her).
To clarify, we were already married and she was is the love of my life. BUT, I already thought I knew the fullness of what a man could feel toward a woman when I proposed; I never imagined the depth of additional feelings that I would develop that only manifested themselves with the addition of our child.
That was my point. Nick may have felt nothing but lust for Adalind,but add their child and blamo, suddenly he sees here in a different light and develop a type of affection he never imagined he could feel.
(11-19-2016, 01:52 PM)irukandji Wrote: They move in together and all of the sudden their pasts suddenly vanish simply because they're playing house now? We are what we are because of our pasts. Lack of a past between Nick and Adalind is not only boring but utterly unbelievable.
One view that I do not think lacks substance is, sex can mask a lot of issues for men for several months. If we are truly only talking 3-9 months then I can believe that sex simply could of masked almost every issue on Nick's ends. On Adalind's side, no way(I get the impression Nick could NOT clockwise rotate in a circular fashion his way out of a wet paper bag as far as women are concerned) but I still think she was very deliberate in reeling him in.
So given the above and general make proclivities, I can buy it to an extent.
Note, how Adlaind + sex with her, had Nick wondering if he was in love with her the very next day (reference: conversation with Monroe in the car n the way to the airport).
Oxford commas are so totally rad!.